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St Marians' recap

... I've been out of the blogosphere for a while... and yesterday/today I'm slowly making my rounds again... I notice two of my three classmates who blog have had introspective pieces posted in the last month or so ... one reflecting on how her kids are missing out on so much positive interaction with her father, if he'd lived longer... and the other wondering about change, trust, and life in general. One of them also had a brief moment of joy then sadness when a pregnancy didn't last long. My thoughts and prayers go out to the both of you, and your families: don't let the past haunt you or bring you down - take what you can from the experience, learn from it, then move on, enjoy life, k? I'm always happy to see introspection going on tho, I've always felt people in general do too little of it. But that's my take on life. Anyways, one more thing: the 3rd of my blogging schoolmates? She's preggers! Congrats, dearie!


  1. aaaaaa...yre back darling. Well life has been 'mind bogling' ..still searching for the better me..thanks darling..lurve ya muahs muahs

  2. Thanks, lynn.

    Miles apart, yet you have had a peek at my inner-most thoughts.

    I peek at your place now and then, but me not into sim nor any other games, so I am just amused, but nothing to relate to. Plus, you say have slowed down on your reading this year, but you are doing better than probably 90% of the rest of the world.

    Take care, my friend.


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